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Table 7.1 - Anticipating Behaviors and Responding Proactively
ANTICIPATED PROBLEM BEHAVIORS MY PROACTIVE RESPONSE
   
"Mom, I hate you! You're the worst mother in the world!" "I'm sorry you feel that way, dear."
"No one likes me. I don't have any friends." "Golly, that's no fun. Would you like to talk about it?"
"Dad, how come I can't have nice things like the other kids at school?" "It is easy to feel deprived, Honey. Do you have any suggestions about how to improve things?"
"Yeah! Just buy me more clothes!" "That would be nice."
"Well! You asked for my suggestions! Is that all I get? "Since I can't just buy you all the clothes you want, think of some things you can do, as well, to help improve things.
You can too buy me more clothes. "You just won't do it because you don't care how I look!" "Can you think of some things you can do to help improve things?"
"Dad! I don't have any money. You know that!" "Give this matter some thought, Honey, and I will too. Let's share our ideas tomorrow."
And so on...  
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